The 3 Happiness Myths
Discover a refreshing take on happiness with this animated gem from Dr Russ Harris, author of The Happiness Trap:
What’s inside this video?
Myth 1: Happiness is our natural state. Reality check: life brings a mix of emotions, and that’s perfectly normal.
Myth 2: Happiness means feeling good. Truth: genuine happiness often involves embracing the full spectrum of emotions, joy and discomfort both included.
Myth 3: If you’re not happy, something’s wrong with you. Fact: emotional suffering is a shared human experience, not a flaw.
Through clear storytelling and warm animation, Dr Harris offers a kinder, more holistic view of happiness, one that reminds us growth and meaning often accompany challenge.
Why This Matters
Understanding these myths can help us:
Release the pressure to “feel good” all the time
Cultivate emotional resilience and self-compassion
Embrace meaning and connection, even in tough moments
Suggested Use
Watch this when you’re feeling stuck in a cycle of chasing happiness or feeling “not enough.”
No special tools needed, just pause, breathe, and reflect on which myth might be holding you back.
Further Inspiration & Applications
If you found this video meaningful, you might also like:
The Choice Point – Learn how everyday moments can align with your values or pull you away.
The Struggle Switch – How acceptance turns down the internal resistance.
Surf Therapy, Golf Therapy or Nature-Based Sessions by Mindswell Therapy – where emotional tools are learned through embodied movement and ocean immersion.
Reflection Prompt
Try this journal entry after watching:
Which of these happiness myths resonates most with you?
How have you felt pressure to “be happy” even when life was hard?
What small shift in perspective could help you live more meaningfully, hellos and hardships both?